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LIFE IN KOREAPosted by Quiet-Jury-5081 🇵🇱 Poland · 1 month ago

Neighbour is loud every single night — what do you actually do?

guy next door watches videos on speaker until 2am. walls are paper. i've knocked once and it lasted two days.

do you go to the owner? does that make it worse? i have class at 9
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Taehyun
TaehyunALLO TEAM
Operations & Local Support · Seoul
Go to the operator. That is what they are for, and it will not make it worse — this is the specific thing goshiwon management exists to handle.

Why going direct rarely works: you knocked once and it lasted two days, which is the normal outcome. A neighbour who complies for 48 hours after a face-to-face knock will drift back, and repeated direct confrontation in a building where you share a wall is where things actually get worse.

Why the operator is the right route:

- Quiet is a rule of the building, not a favour you are asking. Goshiwon were built for exam students and the noise expectation is stricter than in normal housing. Every operator has had this conversation dozens of times.
- Complaints are normally passed on without naming you. The operator says "someone has complained about noise at night" — that is standard and it is why this works.
- If it continues, the operator can and does ask people to leave. They have more leverage than you do and they care, because a noisy resident loses them several quiet ones.

How to raise it so it gets acted on:

1. Note the times over two or three nights. "Videos on speaker, 23:30 to 02:00, Monday to Wednesday" is actionable. "He's noisy" is not.
2. Tell the operator in person if you can, and follow up on KakaoTalk so there is a record.
3. Say plainly that you have class at 9am. That framing lands in a building full of students.
4. If nothing changes after a week, go back once. Persistence matters and operators respond to a second visit.

In the meantime, and these genuinely work: a fan or white noise app masks speaker noise far better than earplugs block it, and foam earplugs on top of that handle most of the rest.

And the real backstop: you are on monthly terms with a month's notice. If the building will not manage its own residents, that is information about the building, and leaving costs you nothing but the move.
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Impossible-Sparrow-4762 🇵🇱 Poland · 1 month ago
went to the owner with specific times written down. he spoke to the guy that day, never named me, and it stopped completely. i'd wasted three weeks being polite about it
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Quiet-Jury-5081 🇵🇱 Poland · 1 month ago
"wasted three weeks being polite" is exactly where i am. going tomorrow
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Anonymous-3132 · 1 month ago
they never name you. that's the bit people are scared of and it doesn't happen
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Seo-jun 🇰🇷 Korea · 1 month ago
korean here — quiet is a rule in goshiwon, not a request. the owner absolutely will act on it, it's a normal part of running the building
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Anonymous-3337 · 1 month ago
a noisy resident costs them several quiet ones. they have every reason to act
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Odd-Kettle-3388 🇨🇱 Chile · 1 month ago
write down the times for a few nights first. specific beats vague by a mile when you're asking someone to act
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Loose-Marble-8194 🇯🇵 Japan · 1 month ago
a fan masks speaker noise much better than earplugs block it. that got me through the two weeks before it was sorted
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Anonymous-3850 · 1 month ago
and if they won't manage it, leave. monthly terms, one month notice. you're not stuck
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